There was a time, not that long ago, when I felt like I was the youngest person in the room. You know that feeling—that mix of naivety and confidence that makes you feel like you’re untouchable? Well, lately, things seem to have shifted. These days, I often catch myself wondering, “Am I aging out?”
A Walk (or Hobble) Through the Running Event
Not too long ago, I attended the Running Event in Austin. It’s a huge gathering for all things related to running, a sport I love deeply. The event itself was fantastic. I met so many fascinating, passionate people—the only catch was that most of them were much younger than my kids. Plus, I had just had knee surgery, so I hobbled through the event.
Awkward Moments and Modern Assumptions
Now, usually, age isn’t something I dwell on. But sometimes, people have a way of reminding you. Case in point: someone approached me during the event and asked about my work. When I mentioned blogging, they replied, “Oh, you have a blog? Do you use social media? I assume that’s all you know how to do.” Excuse me, what?
If that wasn’t enough, another person I met brought up the email topic. “You’re familiar with emails, right?” they asked with genuine concern. Emails. The thing I’ve been using since AOL and dial-up internet were a thing. I wasn’t sure whether to be offended or laugh. (Full disclosure, I chose laughter. It burns more calories anyway.)
The Reality of Feeling Out of Place
It’s moments like these that make you stop and reflect. The truth is, there was a time when I was the youngest person at every event and every gathering. People wanted my perspective because it was fresh. Now, I find myself in a room full of people with shiny sneakers and endless energy, and I’m asked if I know how to use email. It’s humbling, to say the least.
Owning My Experience
But, as much as those moments may sting, they also come with a silver lining. Yes, I may be older now, but I’ve got something those younger folks don’t yet have. I’ve got experience. I’ve seen trends come and go. I’ve made mistakes (lots of them) and come out stronger.
Shaking Off the Doubts
Honestly, people can underestimate you at any age. What matters is how you respond. I’ve learned to shake off awkward comments and instead focus on what I bring to the table. Age isn’t something to shy away from or feel embarrassed about. It’s a badge of honor, proof that you’ve been through a lot and you’re still standing.
Staying Relevant on My Terms
Yes, I’m getting older. Maybe I don’t recover as quickly from a long run, ride, or swim, and I might occasionally forget the name of that new app everyone’s raving about. But you know what? I’m still here. I’m still learning new things, pushing myself, and even hobbling around at events like the Austin Running Event. Because at the end of the day, staying relevant isn’t about being the youngest in the room. It’s about staying curious, open, and never losing that drive to keep moving forward.
Age Is a Badge of Honor
They say age is just a number, and while I think that’s more of a comforting cliché than a universal truth, I do know one thing for sure. There’s room in this world for everyone, regardless of age. Whether you’re the youngest in the room or the one getting quizzed on email know-how, you have something to contribute. And that’s something I’ll never grow out of.
